it must be so hard for an adult

to see his adult child crying for comfort.

i was watching this television show and it hit me right smack there. the love of a parent is just that great, and right now i recall suelynn telling me that there would come a point in life where that thick heavy veil over our eyes now suddenly opens our soul to see the true love of a parent, and this comes after that much years in our lives.

and it really is so true.

how many of you, and i am referring to you young adolescents, really do understand your parents' love for you? there is no politically correct answer for this really because if you say you do, then what have you done all year to show your gratefulness; and if you say you haven't, i cannot blame you because i was once like that. you see our parents don't owe us anything when actually in fact they did us a huge favour in having us conceived and born into the world. mind you, i'm not saying your judgement of the world doesn't matter, but let's leave it there for now and i promise you i will come to it later. but just consider this for a moment, they don't owe us anything but yet their deeds say an entirely different story.

thank you.

it hurts our parents so much when they see just that one tear not just on our face, but really when they see it in us. you may not realise but when we are upset we would naturally display these nuances in our behaviour and what you may also not realise is that your parents can see it. they've been with you all your lives, how can they not know you as you?

we have done so much damage

but yet they ask for no compensation

but only for your companionship

and more importantly

your wings of love.

love you always
dad and mum.