So here's the deal about relationships: I'm not opposed to them amongst youths, I'm just not completely for them. Here's why.
(1) This just ain't the right season.
(2) Not many at that age are ready for marriage anyway.
(3) For the boys-men, girls are not meant to be our trophies for us to brag about.
(4) For friends getting attached, in the event of a break-up the group is forced to take sides which leads to the fragmentation of the once-tight-knit group of friends.
(5) All of the above just ain't gonna bring God the glory He deserves.
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I ain't jealous; instead I'm sorrowful.
If we believe that God has great plans for us, why can't we recognise too then that He has great plans for us in the area of our marriage and relationships?